Who am I?

I guess its important when you start writing a blog to introduce yourself, explain who that half naked guy on social media is and give a bit of an introduction about why you feel the need to put your thoughts out there! So here goes…

Hi, I’m jake. Im a 30 something guy with kids and a demanding job. I run a home by myself and would like to consider myself  a responsible adult, although that’s just my opinion. This blog is going to be mainly about my fitness journey, my mistakes and my ups and downs to get me where I am now. When I was in school a was like a whippet, I had a little six-pack going on until I was in my late teens and the most ridiculous curtain hair style ever. After leaving school I went to college, became a plumber and from there had lots of different jobs. I’ve been talked about for the wrong reasons, been on the wrong side of the law and had more failed relationships than Henry the Eighth. Do I have regrets? Not really!

I had my first child aged 20 and was forced to grow up, or at least try to grow up, from this point on my weight became an issue and I yo-yoed back and forth for years. At 25 I did an eight week chicken and rice diet that got me in the best shape of my life. People still brought my “shape” up in my local town years later. By this time I was a miserable chubby guy in a pub listening to how I used to look and often prodded in the belly as a gentle reminder that I was a has-been. I had my second child aged 30 and really got my head focussed on getting rich and giving my kids everything that I never had growing up. I played rugby at the time and was having a pretty successful season. My business at the time was very successful, it took up all of my life and I literally had time for nothing other than an hour here, an hour there with the kids and rugby for an hour at the weekend. Then came the reality of what I now see as the massive turning point in life. My company lost its contract and went under and I broke my shoulder badly playing rugby.

So here I was, a failed businessman with a massively restrictive injury. these factors alone pushed me into a well hidden depression for quite some time. I found refuge in food, which in turn made me even more miserable. This also triggered the beginning of the end of my relationship which also broke down not long after. My ex partner didn’t do anything wrong, she just got pushed away by me and my attitude towards life. In September 2015 I got dressed to go out with my mates and after 10 attempts at different clothes I decided I looked like a total sack of s**t and changed into my pyjamas and made my excuses. It had got to the point where I wasn’t comfortable wearing clothes at all let alone not wearing them. It was time to start concentrating on the most important things in life: My kids and myself. Time for a change!

I did some research on diet coaches and was given the same name a few times by a few different guys who were in great shape. After a little revision and a lot of soul-searching I made the decision to contact the coach. He told me I would need a 20 week program to get in shape and told me the cost. I didn’t care about the cost. I just wanted my old body back. This was almost two years ago. Since then I have had my before and after pictures displayed on huge media platforms, I have sold my story to the paper, I have helped lots of people lose weight and stay motivated. I have even tried my hand at a bit of modelling.

Anyway, that’s me in a nutshell. That guy who was sick of how he looked in his clothes just two years ago now feels totally comfortable naked. Job done! Now I want to help others achieve what I have achieved and learn from my experience and my mistakes.

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2 thoughts on “Who am I?”

  1. A great, honest blog, that’s very relatable. You’re an inspiration and should be immensely proud of what you’ve achieved. I’m proud to say that I know you. You’re beautiful inside and out. Keep doing what you’re doing because you’re doing just fabulous. 💛

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  2. This is a very inspiring story Jake, everyone in life including myself have had many moments where things have turned upside down causing anxiety/ depression and weight becomes an issue from loosing it through stress to putting on lbs through comfort eating. Then there is also the other issue….’Happiness’ this caused me to indulge in fine foods, lots of dinner parties and social activities that include Lots of wine. Unfortunately I’m not very educated in the ‘healthy eating’ department and belive if I only eat fruit and veg that’s how to loose weight….but also makes me a very miserable person 😕 I have successfully lost a stone on slimming world in the past but within a month of slipping off plan ended up putting on 2lb. I have never been one for the gym but enjoy swimming and brisk walks….which I find does help my motivation to concentrate on what we will call ‘fad diets’ but they never last. I am holding more weight than I ever imagined at the moment (not obese but definitely not a comfortable weight for me) I have admiration for you speaking out and look forward to following your journey.

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